I Quit Making Excuses!

Most of us are guilty of making excuses.

It’s something we have learned from childhood.

Excuses as to why we didn’t put our toys away. Excuses for incomplete homework.

The thing iswe are still making excuses.

Excuses as to why we do not move forward in life. Excuses for why we can’t, won’t or shouldn’t. Excuses on top of excuses and then excuses for making excuses … maybe you can identify with this ;)

Now, Paul the Appstle was a man who learned how to quit making excuses.

Phil 3:12-16 MSG
I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back. So let’s keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision—you’ll see it yet! Now that we’re on the right track, let’s stay on it.

Let’s quit making excuses and reach for the goal … images-5

1. We need to remember that God isn’t’ finished yet.

There is no need to get discouraged. We may not be where we want to be but we are on the way to where God wants us to be. We are on a journey; sometimes the path goes through low and dark place and sometimes the road is paved and scenic. The fact is we ought to trust the one who is leading and realize that He isn’t finished with us yet. (Philippians 1:6) He will get us to the proper destination and the proper time.

2. We need to let go of the past.

When Paul said that he was forgetting the past he meant that he was letting it go. He didn’t mean that his memory was wiped clean of it. He just meant that he wasn’t going to fret over it anymore or waste anymore energy there.

It’s time to let the past go.
It’s time to let the past be in the past.
It’s time to embrace the lessons learned and apply them as we move forward.
It’s time to allow the past to be a memory not allow it to be a dwelling place.

3. We need to look forward to the future.

If we continually look behind us we rob ourselves of the potential God put within.
Lot’s wife never reached her potential because she looked back on the life she had instead of looking forward to the new life she could have had. (Genesis 19:23-29)

There is a reason that our vehicles have a big windshield and a small rear view mirror. I believe the main reason is because what’s happened in the past is not near as important as the potential of the future.

It is time to quit making excuses!

Let’s let go of the excuses and move forward.

How about it …are you ready to quit?

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I QUIT!

I-QuitIt can be difficult to quit something – anything.

This year I decided to quit some things.

It’s a little scary because I have a poor history of quitting. I have tried quitting and then failed at quitting. I have failed at quitting so many times I quit quitting.

But this year is going to be different.

It’s time to start quitting again.

I remember trying to quit smoking & it took several failed attempts but I did quit successfully over 18 years ago. One of the best things I ever did …

There are other things that I wish to quit this year. Over the next few blog posts I hope to expand on some of these these I plan to quit.

This year I am going to be a quitter & I’d like to invite you to join me.

It’s time to quit …

What are some of the things you would like to quit?

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The Dash of Life

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The dash of life.

We are born. We live. We die.

We each have an individual journey to travel. The journey we are on is personal and along the way we support and encourage others.

It is the journey between birth and death; the experience of life on earth.

The poem written by Linda Ellis called The Dash carries a very sobering message. (you can click on the link to read)

We can dash through life without passion or purpose. Or we can journey through life by faith with passion and purpose.

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We can meander through life without rhyme or reason; result unknown. Or we can journey by faith with God’s direction; eternal destination secure.

The Bible calls this journey a race of faith.

1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. (Hebrews 12:1-2 NKJV)

This passage gives some principles to consider on this journey:

1) Look to those who have journeyed well.

The author is specifically referring back to what he just wrote in chapter 11. Chapter 11 is full of faith filled life stories of those who have successfully finished their journeys of faith.

We can look to Abraham, Moses, Rahab and many others who journeyed ‘by faith’.

God gave us these life records as ‘witnesses’ to help us along the way.

The stories of these people, and so many more, are recorded for our benefit. God Himself has preserved the accounts so that we could benefit from their testimony and learn from their experiences. We have a tremendous resource in the written word of scripture.

2) Lay ‘aside every weight.’

Athletic runners, who are serious about their sport, consider everything about their attire including their clothing and shoes. It is important that they carry as little weight as possible to maximize their performance.

It would be ridiculous for a runner to strap on a 20 LB weight and expect to run at their best. But so many of us carry extra baggage without expecting that weight to hinder us. We try to run this race of faith while we carry heavy weights of financial debt, bitterness or fear. We try to walk the journey of faith while we carry in our back pockets the failures of our past and the unfair expectation of others. We insist on holding worry as a badge of honour and pride as a coat of arms without expecting it to affect us. We carry burdens that we ought not carry and they hinder us in our journey.

Folks, It is important to chuck the weight of these kinds of things so that we can journey with passion and purpose.

Jesus said, ‘Come to me you who are weary and heavily burdened. I will give you rest.’ (Matthew 11:28-30)

What is He saying?

‘Let’s do a trade. You give me your heavy burden and I will give you a light one, easy to bear.’

Now, doesn’t that sound good?

3) Avoid the snare of sin.

A snare is an interesting trap of a hunter. For it to be effective the prey should not realize the danger until it is too late.

Sin is exactly like this. Sin seems ok, harmless and even attractive.

The truth is sin ensnares, entangles, destroys and kills.

One of the problems with sin is that it is so enticing.

Eve discovered this in the garden of Eden. The Bible says that Adam and Eve were in the garden enjoying the blessings of God. God told them not to eat of the fruit of one tree. When the serpent tempted Eve to take of the fruit and eat of it the scripture says that it was seemed good to eat & pleasant to the eye. She ate of it and then enticed her husband to eat of it as well. Everything seemed ok until the trap was sprung. The sin seemed pleasant to eye until it ensnared them and they lost everything. (Genesis 3)

Sin is like that. Sin ensnares. Sin entangles. Sin destroys. Sin kills.

Gossip seems harmless. Talking about people, spreading rumour and slander seems like fun until it is done about you. Remember that those who will gossip with you will gossip about you. Gossip ensnares and destroys lives.

Drinking to excess seems ok. Everyone is doing it and it can be a lot of fun, right? It seems this way but truthfully, it ensnares and destroys. These verses in Proverbs 23 speak about its enticing nature. It says that although it goes down smoothly it bites like a poisonous viper. It can lead to poverty, mockery and violence.

Pornography is attractive and harmless right? NO. It may seem enticing but it can lead to impotency, destroy marriages & families. It debases the dignity of women, empowers human traffickers and objectifies people. It’s a perversion of what God meant to be a blessing in the confines of marriage.

We have all been ensnared by sin; everyone.

The good news is that Christ can set us free and empower us to lay it aside.

4) Don’t quit.

The Hebrews author writes, ‘let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.’

This is an important point. Never give up! We ought never to quit. We ought not to give up.

There is an old saying that goes like this: ‘Quitters never win and Winners never quit.’

It doesn’t matter if you have failed. We all have. Get up and don’t quit.

One person said, “Most people give up just when they’re about to achieve success. They quit on the one yard line. They give up at the last minute of the game, one foot from winning a touchdown.”

You may get tripped up … get up and keep moving toward the finish line.

Life may throw you a curve ball … God isn’t surprised. Trust Him, don’t quit and keep moving toward the goal.

Our greatest example is Jesus. He had a specific race to run and he ran it perfectly. He had a certain journey to finish and he successfully did.

We can encourage ourselves with the testimony of the ancients but especially with the story of Christ’s work.

He is the author and the finisher of our journey of faith.

He endured the cross on our behalf. He despised the shame in order to save us. He ran His race and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

He is our great example. And He, I will follow!

So, we have a journey still before us.

Our birthdate is known but our death date isn’t.

the dash of our life

The dash in between is the journey we are experiencing.

What are we going to do with this dash of life?

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